You do daimoku, take new
determination or challenge for going to the meeting and suddenly something
happens and you are like ¨Dammit I take one step forward and Bammm, 5 steps
back¨.
Incidence: Just 2 weeks ago, I was going for home visits and
meetings despite of 30 or 70km distance but for some reason I knew that despite
huge issues I already had, it was silence before the storm. As soon as I got
back, I was set on fire with work deadlines and went to a conference with my
boss and a fellow colleague where I had a good response to my work but this
spirit was destroyed soon with constant negative remarks from my boss. As If
didn’t have enough on my plate, someone pick pocketed my wallet in a new
country with all my cash, cards, visa etc. Running back and forth to police,
embassy and story goes on, I reached a point of being left with nothing but
only faith. While i am aiming for my biggest goal of practice for coming
November 18 which was put into action almost a year ago.
Result: I finally had time to cry for a change in last 3 months as
I didn’t realise how so many things have happened one after another, from my
dad´s health to my lost visa. At first, I felt exhausted and hopeless but after
2 days with lots of daimoku I got up again. I reached out to two people who are
my friends and mother´s in faith and my only question to them was, tell me
which gosho I need to read? Meanwhile I already got myself in action.
Action: I sat for chanting for hours till I felt little better and
then I remembered this mother of faith told me once, ¨Sit for daimoku and put
your brain aside and chant to have a new mind filled with wisdom with each nam
myoho renge kyo¨. I did it while I put my heart into Gohonzon as a centre of my
life. I read gosho continuously till I encountered what I needed. ¨ The Lotus Sutra states
that if there are men and women who have firm faith in this sutra the Buddha
will support them on his shoulders and carry them on his back. ¨ (Gosho, vol 1:
The Supremacy of law)
I did feel like the more I pour
in Daimoku, more I was sliding back but that was my mind talking. I looked in
my heart and reflected upon everything. Interestingly, it is second time in my
whole life that my wallet was stolen. It was just in time as I was moving ahead
for the finale of my biggest goal. Obviously, there is no coincidence it all
happened as I have a bigger mission and more the darkness, brighter the moon
will be. My victories will shine like that full moon on a dark night. I knew
all I need now is faith, interestingly being a logical person I was chanting to
have more faith in my Gohonzon. And so with Daimoku I knew this is my
opportunity to strengthen my faith rather than begrudging about what has
happened or feeling like ¨Poor me¨. Every happening is a clear answer to our
prayer like a blessing in disguise. Daishonin says,
¨Strengthen your resolve more
than ever. Ice is made of water, but it is colder than water. Blue dye comes
from indigo, but when something is repeatedly dyed in it, the color is better
than that of the indigo plant. The Lotus Sutra remains
the same, but if you repeatedly strengthen your resolve, your color will be
better than that of others, and you will receive more blessings than they do.¨ (Gosho,
vol 1: The Supremacy of law)
Personal learning:
· This is the time to
keep faith and only move forward without any doubt
· I am trying to
re-polish my gongyo while improving quality of Daimoku
· Started byakuren once
again with new attitude, I went yesterday not to have time to chant for me but
I went there to be at service for other members. Also chanted in morning not
for me but for members to achieve their limitless potential and joy as they
come to kaikan.
· I have left my
problems on side without thinking too much as I focus on my determination to
send my victory report to sensei for coming November 18.
Take home message:
If you ask me next time, what I should do now,
my life is hopeless. And I will answer consistent
practice, polish your 3 pillars of practice above all chant for others and take
gakkai duties not for selfish purpose of victory but to really be there as a
bodhisattva when you can´t even stand for yourself.
Hi Kanupriya, I can't even begin to tell you how encouraging your blog posts. Thank you for sharing your life struggles with us. It helps each one of us to renew our vow, on daily basis.
ReplyDeleteHi Pallavi, thanks a lot for such an empowering comment. It means a lot that I can make any difference in real life. Really grateful for your words and your efforts to read my blog. Please stay safe and keep persevering :)
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